“would you fuck your clone” = boring, who cares, the answer says nothing about you other than whether or not you’re your own type
“would you fuck MY clone” = unexpected, high potential to cause a lot of ‘why would you fuck my clone and not me?’ drama, reasonable question to ask if you’re a mad scientist
I’m on cold meds because I am a sickly waif and pain meds for my wrist sprain and for like a solid ten minutes I sat staring at a half-written fic chapter before realizing I wrote the sentence, “Imbibing unfortunate syrups give us qualms.” Like what does that mean. What does any of that mean.
reading a romance novel where the protagonist feels the need to stop and inform that audience that it’s okay for her, a 27 year old, to hook up with a 31 year old because despite the age difference both of their brains are fully developed. the Discourse really has done incalculable damage.
that’s…they’re adults 4 years apart, who on Earth would think there’s any sort of meaningful age gap
like a fool i have always forgiven the dc metro system every time it fucks me over because the stupid sexy 70s brutalist aesthetic is just too swag i am sorry
except you. you are a testament to american hubris and were never supposed to exist
I am so sorry to do this to you but I actually have to talk about it because it is a very specific and weird story. So pictured here is the longest escalator in the western hemisphere and it’s specifically western hemisphere because at the time of construction it was the cold war and usa government was in a dumb competition with ussr government to see who could build the longest fucking metro escalator which would prove….something, i guess. usa lost and the 3 longest escalators in the world are in St. Petersburg. so this and the st. petersburg one are all actually in fact freaky long escalators
As a reminder that good exists out there, a coworker recently confessed to me that he found out his child is questioning their identity (kid’s gender redacted for this post). The kid is keeping it from him, so he can’t say anything to them or show that he knows, but he’s doing his best to get mentally prepared and educated so that he’ll be ready whenever his kid does feel comfortable enough come to him.
For context, this guy is a big, bulky middle aged dude who loves sports and typical outdoor “manly” activities. As his coworker and friend, I know he’s a kind and sweet teddy bear of a person, but his kid probably views him as a stern, authoritarian figure, the way most teenagers view their parents. His family lives in a conservative area, so I’m sure between that, their dad’s looks and interests, and the fact that their dad is a Figure of Authority, the kid is worried that they won’t be accepted.
But you know what? When he found out about his kid, the first thing he did was reach out to his closest queer friend and ask for resources for parents of questioning children. His biggest fears are that his kid will be bullied or discriminated against and won’t feel comfortable enough to be themself. His second action was to find himself a mentor in another parent who went the same situation (kid coming out in a conservative town). The other person is preparing him for some of the struggles his kid may face and the fights he may need to take on as a parent to make sure his kid is safe and treated well.
Something I want to emphasize for people focused on language as the primary method of allyship is that when we spoke, he used some outdated terms and thoughts about gender and sexuality. That does not make him bad. Thesewere the terms and thinking used about questioning teenagers when he was growing up and he never needed to learn more current ones. But now that he does have that need, he’s throwing himself in head first because that’s his kid and he’s darn well going to make sure that his kid feels welcomed and has a safe place to be themselves even if they never come out to him.
ALT
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